How is it possible that some couples enjoy each other during all their life and some seem to lose that sparks in their eyes after a several years of common life, sometimes even during the phase of dating. This happens as some people getting into a relationship; think they will automatically know how to keep the fire burning. However, staying passionate about each other on the course of all your life is indeed a great skill. Good news this skill can be learned. Here are some hints to adopt and stay happy in your relationship.
• Catch romance where you only can
Most everyone starts the relationship with candy-flowers period, but it is impossible to sustain it in every day life as you have work, home and other responsibilities. Successful couples manage to find romance where they only can in everyday routine. These can be kisses, holding hands, a romantic walk, unexpected dinner, etc. This is what keeps the sparkle in your eyes alive.
• Learn to fight fair
To keep chemistry alive between you two, you need to learn to fight right. Stop attacking each other and cutting each other off; remember there is no relationship without disagreement, but never let your arguments escalate to your beloved’s personality. Focus on issue instead.
• Nurture your personal life
Take time for your hobbies, interests and don’t see this as if you two are drifting away from each other. Having individual interests makes the life of a couple richer. Having these small breaks you get more appreciation for each other, besides separate hobbies allow more topics to be discussed.
• Explore the new ground together
Start a common project together! Couples, who start something common, get the feeling of accomplishment that pumps their chemistry up.
• Don’t let your physical attraction for each other fade away
Couples with passion alive have no problems in keeping chemistry. To give your sexual life a new start – try new things and discover what brings your partner satisfaction, since our tastes change with time.
• Keep mutual respect and admiration
Pay attention to what your partner does every day even to the little things and praise and compliment him/her.